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🌲 '''4 – Spend Time Alone.''' The narrative begins at the Armed Forces Retirement Home in Washington, D.C., where Abraham Lincoln rode from the White House to a hilltop cottage near Petworth; set among green lawns and guarded by companies of the 150th Pennsylvania Volunteers, it offered respite from lines of office seekers described by Harold Holzer. Visitors often recorded interrupting his solitude: Treasury employee John French arrived one summer evening to find him deep in thought, and executive director Erin Carlson Mast noted Lincoln’s solitary walks in the adjacent military cemetery as he shaped historic sentences. In that quiet, Lincoln drafted the Emancipation Proclamation—jotting ideas on scraps he tucked into his top hat—and a replica desk now sits in the bedroom because the original was moved to the White House. From this case, the chapter defines solitude not as physical isolation but as a subjective state free from the input of other minds, attainable on a quiet lawn, a subway car, or in a coffee shop. Drawing on Raymond Kethledge and Michael Erwin’s ''Lead Yourself First'' alongside Anthony Storr and Michael Harris, it links solitude to clarifying hard problems, regulating emotion, building moral courage, and deepening relationships. The text then warns of “solitude deprivation,” newly common as smartphones erase once‑inevitable reflective moments; teens’ nine‑hour‑a‑day media loads exemplify the risk. The practical move is to alternate regular time alone with regular connection and to carve out device‑free periods—long walks, errands, commutes—so reflection becomes a daily default again. This matters because only when inputs pause can ideas cohere and presence with others improves by contrast. ''Simply put, humans are not wired to be constantly wired.''
🚫 '''5 – Don’t Click “Like.”''' In 2007, ESPN broadcast the USA Rock Paper Scissors League national championship—“Land Shark” versus “the Brain”—with a $50,000 purse and a final throw the announcers dubbed “the paper heard around the world.” The 3:58 YouTube clip posted that October preserves the mini–boxing-ring spectacle, but the lesson is that elite players win by reading subtle human cues rather than randomness. That same social inference power underwrites conversation, which engages the full bandwidth of gesture, tone, and timing. Neuroscientist Matthew Lieberman’s research on the brain’s default network shows, via PET imaging, that even newborns and adults in three‑second task gaps spontaneously activate social-cognition circuits. Because we’re built for dense, high‑signal exchange, flattening that richness into a tap is like towing a sports car behind a mule. Large studies reinforce the danger: a University of Pittsburgh team reported young adults in the top quartile of social‑media use were three times likelier to report loneliness, while work by Shakya (UC San Diego) and Christakis (Yale) linked standard‑deviation rises in likes or link clicks to 5–8% drops in mental health. The “Like” feature itself emerged on FriendFeed in October 2007 and reached Facebook sixteen months later, reducing expression to a single bit and fueling intermittent‑reward loops. The remedy is to stop one‑click nudges, batch texting into set windows, and give conversation a predictable home—say, “office hours” at 5:30 p.m. on weekdays during a Bay Area commute. The chapter’s thrust is that conversation—not connection—must be the default, because our social brain expects thick signals, not binary pings. Remove the variable‑reward cues and you reclaim attention for the reciprocal exchanges that actually satisfy. ''Put simply, you should stop using them.''
🎨 '''6 – Reclaim Leisure.''' The argument begins with Aristotle’s Nicomachean Ethics, where Book X locates the happiest life in activities pursued for their own sake, not as means to other ends. Arnold Bennett’s 1908 tract How to Live on 24 Hours a Day sharpens this into what the chapter calls the Bennett Principle: exerting more effort in leisure can leave you more energized than passive rest because the mind craves change, not idling. Case studies follow: Mr. Money Mustache (Pete Adeney) channels free time into strenuous projects—from teaching himself welding to renovating a run‑down building in Longmont, Colorado—because hands‑on craft is the reward. Furniture maker Gary Rogowski’s Handmade grounds the claim: people need tools in their hands, whether planing wood, knitting, playing guitar, or winning a pickup game, because skill plus resistance yields satisfaction. For “supercharged sociality,” David Sax profiles Toronto’s Snakes & Lattes, a board‑game café with 120 seats, a $5 cover, no Wi‑Fi, weekend lines that stretch for hours, and even a game sommelier—proof that structured, in‑person play outcompetes glossy screens. Volunteer groups like F3 (“Fitness, Fellowship and Faith”) show the same pattern: free, organized workouts that deliver camaraderie as much as fitness. Technology still has a role—but in support: the Mouse Book Club mails smartphone‑sized classics and, funded by a Kickstarter of more than $50,000 from 1,000+ backers, uses blogs and podcasts to convene real‑world discussion. Fill the vacant hours first with demanding, analog, often communal pursuits and the pull of low‑grade digital entertainment fades on its own. Mechanistically, craft and structured groups create deep feedback loops and rich signals that align with our evolutionary appetites, which is why they sustain attention and mood better than passive scrolling. ''Leisure Lesson #1: Prioritize demanding activity over passive consumption.''
🛡️ '''7 – Join the Attention Resistance.'''
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