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| genre = Nonfiction; Popular psychology
| publisher = Bantam Books
| pub_date = October 1995
| media_type = Print (hardcover, paperback); e-book
| pages = 352
| isbn = 978-0-553-09503-6
| goodreads_rating = 4.05
| goodreads_rating_date = 276 OctoberNovember 2025
| website = [https://www.randomhousebooks.com/books/69105/ randomhousebooks.com]
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== Chapter summary ==
''This outline follows the Bantam Books hardcover edition (October 1995; ISBN 978-0-553-09503-6; 352 pp.).''<ref name="OCLC32430189">{{cite web |title=Emotional intelligence |url=https://search.worldcat.org/title/emotional-intelligence/oclc/32430189 |website=WorldCat |publisher=OCLC |access-date=27 October 2025}}</ref><ref name="PRH">{{cite web |title=Emotional Intelligence |url=https://www.randomhousebooks.com/books/69105/ |website=Random House Publishing Group |publisher=Penguin Random House |access-date=27 October 2025}}</ref>
 
=== I – The Emotional Brain ===
 
🎯 '''1 – What Are Emotions For?.''' {{Tooltip|Charles Darwin}}’s 1872 treatise {{Tooltip|The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals}} sets the chapter’s frame: emotions evolved as adaptive “impulses to action,” not as noise. The chapter details hard-wired physiology—anger shunting blood to the hands for grasping or striking, fear routing blood to the large leg muscles to prime a sprint, surprise lifting the eyebrows to widen the visual field, and joy quieting worry circuits while restoring energy. These fast shifts ride on the {{Tooltip|limbic system}} beneath the {{Tooltip|neocortex}} and act in milliseconds when a threat or opportunity appears. In everyday scenes—a parent jerking a child back from a curb, a driver braking before awareness catches up—the same circuitry outruns deliberation. Because these reflexes are coarse, they can misfire under symbolic modern stressors, producing outsized reactions to slights, deadlines, or ambiguous cues. The chapter introduces “{{Tooltip|emotional memory}},” which tags experiences with value signals that guide decisions before conscious analysis completes. The aim is not to mute feeling but to align it with reason so ancient survival gear serves present goals. Taken together, these pages set up the book’s skills—self-awareness, self-management, empathy, and social skill—as ways to turn feelings into usable information. Emotional intelligence, in this sense, is the capacity to sense and shape rapid affective signals so thinking does its best work.
 
⚡ '''2 – Anatomy of an Emotional Hijacking.''' At {{Tooltip|New York University}}’s {{Tooltip|Center for Neural Science}} in the early 1990s, {{Tooltip|Joseph LeDoux}} mapped fear learning in rats and traced a quick “low road” from the sensory {{Tooltip|thalamus}} to the {{Tooltip|amygdala}} during tone-and-shock conditioning. That shortcut launches a rough first-draft appraisal—freezing, heart pounding, and a {{Tooltip|hormone}} surge—before the slower, more precise cortical “high road” can finish its analysis. Once tripped, the amygdala recruits the {{Tooltip|hypothalamus}}, pituitary, and {{Tooltip|adrenal glands}} to flood the body with {{Tooltip|adrenaline}} and {{Tooltip|cortisol}}, while the {{Tooltip|locus coeruleus}} sprays {{Tooltip|norepinephrine}} through the brain. The chapter links this cascade to everyday blowups—road rage, sharp words at work, sudden tears—that feel as if something else “took over.” Prior emotional memories sensitize triggers, so present cues that rhyme with past hurts can ignite outsized reactions. The pattern—an “{{Tooltip|amygdala hijack}}”—often ends with remorse after arousal subsides and perspective returns. High arousal weakens prefrontal oversight, narrowing attention and biasing perception toward threat; training attention to early cues and practicing recovery—breathing, reframing, brief time-outs—keeps the reflex from running the show. In this light, emotional intelligence is the know-how to notice a hijack in real time and restore balance between {{Tooltip|limbic urgency}} and {{Tooltip|executive control}}. Integrating the amygdala’s rapid warnings—not obeying them blindly—turns them into data that sharpen judgment rather than distort it.
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